Who Is Fred Sirieix’s Fiancée? All About ‘Fruitcake’ and Their Relationship

Fred Sirieix, the beloved French maître d’ best known for his role on Channel 4’s First Dates, has always been associated with romance and matchmaking. But away from the cameras, viewers have often wondered about the woman who stole his heart — affectionately known as ‘Fruitcake’.

As First Dates returned for its 22nd season, fans of the show were once again curious about Fred’s own love story. Despite his public persona, Fred has chosen to keep many details of his relationship under wraps, particularly when it comes to his mysterious fiancée.

Fred first met Fruitcake in the London neighbourhood of Peckham. Recalling the moment, he described it as an instant connection: “I was walking and she smiled at me. I smiled back and was taken in by her eyes. I had to speak to her.” Without hesitation, he asked for her number and suggested going out for a drink that very evening — a bold move that led to the beginning of a lasting relationship, now nine years strong.

Although the pair made their relationship public in 2018, they have remained fiercely private when it comes to her real identity. On social media, she humorously addressed the nickname, stating, “Fruitcake is not my real name. My mum would never!” This playful approach has only added to the intrigue surrounding her.

Despite the secrecy, fans have been treated to a few glimpses into their life together. Fruitcake has occasionally appeared alongside Fred on Celebrity Gogglebox, giving audiences a rare peek at their dynamic. However, beyond these brief appearances, very little is known about her profession or background, and the couple seems content keeping it that way.

Fred and Fruitcake got engaged in 2020 and originally planned to tie the knot the following year. Unfortunately, the COVID-19 pandemic disrupted their plans. The couple tried to rearrange the wedding for the year after, but once again, it didn’t go ahead.

In 2023, while appearing on I’m A Celebrity, Fred revealed that the couple now intended to get married in Jamaica in 2024. His fiancée was reportedly surprised by this revelation, as it was meant to remain a private family matter. “It was actually just meant to be kept between family,” she admitted later, highlighting their shared desire to keep personal milestones out of the spotlight.

Before meeting Fruitcake, Fred was in a long-term relationship with Alex Spendolini. Together, they share two children, including Olympic diver Andrea Spendolini-Sirieix, who has since made a name for herself in British sport.

Though Fred’s television presence is all about helping others find love, his own relationship remains largely shielded from the public eye — perhaps the very secret to its strength. As their wedding plans in Jamaica approach, fans remain curious but respectful of the couple’s commitment to privacy and their seemingly unshakeable bond.